80th birthday request

on my 80th birthday i would like people to say these three things about my life: that i always was a hand when help was needed that i never was a ear that could not listen and that i always was a heart that loved his family  want them to say this man was always there he would put others in front of his desires even if it ment him not accomplishing what he wanted i want them to say that i was never too busy to sit and talk to someone if they needed too because who knows when your last conversation will be. i learned that after the past two deaths in our high school life is but a vapor so take every chance you can get to reach out and even if it is just a 5 minute conversation take it thats what i came away from this week is dont over look the little things cuz one day they will add up to a lot